I finally finished
this book that has been sitting by my bedside for the last month or two. I have not kept my promise to read every
night at 9:00. Lots to do around this
house. Ironically this book is all about
intentionally living, and I am doing everything but. I am living from one major event to the
next.
The book, Notes
From a Blue Bike, by Tsh Oxenreider, appealed to me for several reasons. First my bike is blue and I love riding my
bike. 2.
I read Tsh’s other books, One Bite at A Time and Organized Simplicity and I loved them. 3. Her new book is about intentionally living, a topic I am interested in.
Tsh recounts the
last few years of her life and what has lead to the decision she makes, but
when it really comes down to all her experiences there is a underlining purpose….slowing
down and living the life she wants to live.
Tsh defines
intentionally living as “staying true to yourself and your family….and
making daily choices so that your life lines up with your passions and
values.” She writes that we can make
little changes each day to make choices to live a slower life.
Where do you start
creating a life that is intentionally….of course you need a plan.
1. Write a purpose statement. Name the things that are important to
you.
For me
intentionally living will mean --- taking care of myself first. It sounds selfish, however my children are
all above the age 25 and they are capable of taking care of themselves. It is just my husband and me and together we
need to start thinking of slowing down, working less, and focusing on taking
care of ourselves physically, mentally, and spiritually. We are also in a place where we can “discover
the blessing of living for something beyond” ourselves. We are in a place where we can give more….and
we have.
My favorite part of
the book was when Tsh wrote about the importance of reading to your
children. (This has been my theme song
for years with my four children and with my students at school.)
She quotes a
friend, Rachel, who is speaking from a parent point of view, “Although we don’t
teach them the details of what they learn, we teach them how to learn. We do this by reading, reading, reading and
more reading. We do this by modeling
lifelong learning, by teaching them how we solve problems and discover
solutions.”
Tsh writes about the
most important item they, as parents, have in their household, BOOKS.
“People who read
more are naturally better inclined to learn, and people who make reading a
habit at a younger age are more likely to spend the rest of their lives
reading.” AND “Students whose parents often read books WITH
them during their first years of primary school showed markedly higher scores” on standardized tests.
No Kidding….most likely because with the reading, comes conversation and learning.
I am going to use
this quote in my parent presentation at the beginning of the school year and for my son who is expecting his first child.
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